What You Will Find on This Site

This website contains HUNDREDS of articles to help you work a 12-Step program of recovery around compulsive spending and debting. Topics range from setting up a spending plan to working the steps to sponsor/sponsee issues to dealing with relationships in recovery … and much more!

Pick a category from the Sidebar, go to the list of posts by title, type a topic in the “Search the Site” box, or just scroll down to start reading posts. The articles on this website were written by Susan B., a recovering compulsive spender and debtor. You can read about her recovery journey here.



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Recovery Books

The Getting Out from Going Under Daily Reader for Compulsive Debtors and Spenders

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The Five Year Recovery Journal


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New Kindle/Print Book on Emotional Sobriety

I’ve just published a new book. If you enjoyed the “Getting Out from Going Under Daily Reader for Compulsive Debtors and Spenders,” you will want to check out “The Sum of Our Parts: An art book on emotional sobriety, chronic illness, and the mind-body connection.”*

Kindle and print editions available

In my last post, I explained that I’ve now focused my recovery efforts on creating art in conjunction with writing about my search for emotional sobriety and healing from chronic illness.

In this little book of 56 original inspirational readings and artwork, 
I share my experience, 
strength, and hope (along with more than a bit of my struggle)
 on the topics of emotional sobriety, chronic illness, and healing 
from mind/body syndrome (also known as TMS). 


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Reviews for the FREE Fearless Budgeting Training Program!

In case you haven’t checked out the free Fearless Budgeting training program yet, I’m excited to share two of the testimonials that I’ve received. You can find them when you take a look at Course #1: Foundational Course, Creating Your Spending Plan.

(For purposes of this post, I’ve used initials where I thought appropriate.)

Incredible. As a new D.A. member, this course is fundamental!
by F.F.

I feel truly grateful for Susan’s incredible work. I’m a psychotherapist in my 30s, and just a few weeks ago, the reality of my money problems, spending/debting addiction has landed with a huge impact on my sense of self.

I have begun attending DA meetings, and as I prepare to find a sponsor and keep track of my spending for the next 90 days, I found Susan’s course. Truly incredible. What I loved the most was her compassionate voice, inviting me to breathe, pause, and not attempt to “rip the bandaid off” and just push through the course all in one sitting. Thank you Susan for this work. I have the basis for a Spending Plan that I will begin using as a get together a PRG meeting in a few weeks.

Your step-by-step, kind, grounded, layered approach has helped me truly make a STRONG foundation for a spending plan. I have read SO many budgeting and money books in the past. This has stuck with me.

THANK. YOU.

Helpful and Kind – Just what I need
by Krystal T.

One of my favorite things about Susan B is her gentle coaching. This course takes her calming voice and breaks down the spending plan piece by piece, turning it into bite size chunks that are easy to follow and implement. Unlike other financial/budgeting courses, Susan comforts and teaches through encouragement and personal stories rather than shaming the student. I felt relieved when I finished this course, whereas before this course I was a tightly wound ball of anxiety around money. Now, onto the second course!


This online training program is, and will always be, free! I urge you to check it out or read more about it. And please feel free to contact me if you have any questions.

The FREE Fearless Budgeting Training Program is Live!

The Fearless Budgeting Training Program for Compulsive Spenders has officially launched with this blog post!

I have to say that creating this training program took so much longer than I anticipated (six months instead of two) because I found that there was more and more that I needed to tell you, but I’m hoping this will be a helpful resource for compulsive spenders seeking to create and learn how to use a spending plan.

The program is comprised of two audio/text courses:
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My 2018 Valentine’s Day Rant

It’s Valentine’s Day, so it’s time for my annual Valentine’s Day rant. I’m rerunning last year’s post, but just want to add a couple of thoughts. I despise this marketing manipulation day for so many reasons, but really hope to convince you, at the least, not to fall for the hype and spend money you may not be able to afford as the Valentine Svengali’s are hoping to persuade you to do.

If you MUST “celebrate,” consider sending a free e-card in lieu of enriching Hallmark or American Greetings, who are part of this $18 billion dollar industry, using a sub-text of guilt to draw you into their web of unnecessary spending.

One of my favorite words is “sheeple.” According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, it means docile, compliant, or easily influenced : people likened to sheep.

I don’t know if it’s “sheeple” complex driving this industry. Or guilt. Or an easy way to use money to show love. But you don’t need a specific day to remember to show those you love how much you care about them.

If you must engage in this nonsense because it matters to that most important person in your life, there are a million ways to express your love without giving in to the pressure to buy candy, jewelry, flowers, or cards … ways that will be far more meaningful and remembered more fondly. Here are a few examples:
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Now Get Three Months to Try YNAB FREE!

I recently discovered that there were some people who were able to offer their readers three months free to try YNAB before having to pay for it. I was really upset because I was only able to offer the standard 34 days. I had no idea that this even existed!

So I wrote them and they approved my doing this too! I was really excited because you will have the two extra months to accumulate for the first year’s subscription. Then, you can just accumulate each month for subsequent years.

Plus, you can really give YNAB a good, long try to see if it’s the right approach for you. You know I love it, but you need the opportunity to fall in love with it too. 🙂

I feel badly because I asked if previous subscribers could now get the extra two months through my link but they said they didn’t have a way to do that. I’m sorry. I did try.

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